Dear bi men / a Black man's perspective on power, consent, breaking down binaries, and combating erasure
(Book)

Includes bibliographical references and index.

"An unapologetic guide for readers who are Black, masc, and bi—unlearning biphobia, coming out, combatting erasure, and embodying your whole self Through cutting social analysis, personal stories, and need-to-know advice, Dear Bi Men reclaims bi+ visibility in a culture of erasure—and unapologetically centers Blackness in a practical and deeply researched guide to navigating life, work, and relationships as a Black bi+ man. Popular representation of bi and pansexual men is growing, but we’re not there yet: It’s mostly white. It collapses bisexual identity into tired, hypersexualized tropes. And it fails to interrogate the deeply entrenched stereotypes that insist: You’re confused. You just don’t know you’re gay. You’re greedy. You must be great in bed. Author, peer counselor, and creator of #bisexualmenspeak J.R. Yussuf pushes back against these stigmas and misconceptions, exploring how white supremacy reinforces biphobia and dictates what society thinks it means to 'be a man.' He contextualizes discourse around queerness and bisexuality within a larger framework that honors readers’ intersecting identities. And he offers deeply practical advice, sharing how to: Unlearn internalized biphobia and homophobia ; Navigate an increasingly hostile digital landscape ; Think about coming out: who to tell, why to tell them, and how to do it ; Fight back against erasure and stigma ; Navigate sex, dating, partnerships, marriage, friendship, and work ; Understand your bi+ sexuality through a political lens ; Process Black bi+ representation." --publisher's website